Friday, May 29, 2015

strutting down this yellow brick road call life...

What to write? 
It's not that I am in writers block I just think that I don't want to write what is going on through my head and in my life.... Does that sound absolutely horrible? 

In family news mom has started chemo and hopefully it will shrink the tumors I am trying to stay  positive with everything going on even with  my sister being so far away I can't even imagine what they are thinking let alone am I going to not drive myself crazy and stress out. 

Work life has been getting better and easier as the days go on.. I don't normally hang out with them because a lot of things have changed around me.. 

I know short posts are the worst here but I am still trying to figure out what I want to write. 


Friday, May 22, 2015

He always has a plan.

He will always have a plan . I guess that is the correct term for it. Everything lately has just been under a lot of stress. I can normally deal with a lot of it because it what normally happens. Mom starts treatment next week so It will be a rough couple of days.

I've been working alot more hours and tonight is one of them I am working over 11 hours for our 24 hour event at work. I heard that it's really crazy so far for the people that had to work this morning. 

This weekend is going to be a long one with alot of hours thrown into three days of work, but the pay check should be nice in the end.

Nothing else really to report I just wanted to at least post to say that I am still here.


Friday, May 8, 2015

Why does everyone get in your business about being single?

Ok fellow blogger friends! I think I am back on track at least for todays post. I am taking a break from my real life since if you read my last post that I have a lot going on. But taking it day by day, But I do appreciate any prayers to send to my family and I.

ok so onto today's post!
19 things that women are tired of hearing while being single

I came across this post on Facebook the other day more like 4 days ago. I've come to the realization that I have at least agreed to 99% of what they were saying. It's not a bad thing to be single, Its a love hate kind of relationship. Because everyone will have a say in what they think you should do?

Even if you are in a relationship everyone has something to say about it like "oh you could do better." or that " I can't picture you with him and the list can go on." 

Some friends even try to set you up with their friends thinking that they will be perfect for you? Just No, You may get lucky with a couple, but overall just let the person do it their own way, because if they are not looking they are not looking. 

I always get the "your way to beautiful and funny to be single." I am ok with being single. I have some friends that are already married and have children, and yes if you believe it they are younger then me by like a year  and I am happy for them.  Yes I do get the occasional jokes about "Mary Kay when are you going to pop out a kid and or get a man to marry." give it some time. 

 I haven't been looking because one I am not at that time yet to look. I have a lot of things that I am struggling with my family and by far they come first while trying to stay healthy and be at my job, because I am ready to move up in the company , and or do something different. 

I love it how this article that I posted when I started this blog post states that maybe you should lower your standards: I guess my standards are simple , faithful, trusting, and generally a nice guy who is stable and can handle me for who I am. 

What I think of being single is that I am working on myself to become a better person. Yes I still may have a long way to go. But I still love myself , and even though I'm going through a hard time I still find the good in everyone. 

All right blog land I think I bored you enough with this post so with this I say Good bye until next time.


Be Nice to People!
Happy birthday to my dad whose up in Heaven Miss you and love you till we meet again. 



Monday, May 4, 2015

Why? Just Why?

Why, Just Why?I know that there are a many people out there who have it worse. But why do people who don't deserve what they get.

I know what you are probably going to say Mary Kay Where have you been? I am sorry that I've been on the down low for a while. I've just needed a break from reality for a while, which included blogging and being on my phone. 

I am back and ready to give blogging another go. Lately I've been just working a lot  and just lounging around the house and making dinner. Usually that is about all I eat is dinner, and before you say anything know I am not trying to starve myself or have an eating disorder, I just haven't felt hungry.. Which case in point I don't know if that's a bad thing or a good thing..

I've been going through a lot in the last couple of weeks, Between my mom now having cancer again, and hearing about some friends in high school passing away, it's been a rough one. 

I've recently cut my hair and let me tell you I went super short , not pixie cut short , but short enough where I can't really get it into a pony tail but that's ok. It's the little things just to make your day a little bit better. 

I know that this is a really short post, I am going to be working on some other posts with in the next week or two, I just need life to kind of calm down a bit, to really grasp it. 
But thank you for sticking with me in the long run.